WHATEVER THAT'S YOURS, STAYS WITH YOU...IF THE GRIP IS TIGHT ENOUGH 🙆🙆🙆

"She took my place!!!"..."He always gets whatever that I am supposed to have"..."She always wants whatever that's mine!'......All these blames,hatred happens not because of a someone else,not because of a third person but it's mainly because of YOU. Remember,when you have a really strong grip of what's yours, then, in any situation you will always be able to stand for whatever that's yours without any worries. Even during certain times, people tend to blame others for a mistake that actually happened because of them and during that very angry moment, they definitely won't have that thought to admit their mistake accept the blame.

We are all humans and it is normal to make mistake but it is not normal only when you stay stubborn,without even thinking of others' rights . Be it a talent or anything that you think is special about you, be proud of it but never show off. Grow your talents, learn more about yourself and grow up instead of staying at the same position because what's the fun of being the normal you all the time...RIGHT? Each one of us own a talent that is still hiding in us that we are yet to discover or a talent that we haven't give a thought about. We are all in this world to achieve and not just to live as the normal us.

When someone takes over your position, instead of having a negative competition against them, make it a positive one and grow up together. We are all created as humans with the same number of brain and we can grow up when we help others to grow up too. Never look down on others even if they are not as good as you are. We knew nothing when we were born, we learnt everything when we grew, maybe the way we grew wouldn't have been the same and not everyone can be equal. We will all have different weakness, different strengths and that is why instead of looking down at others we should educate them. Lift them up, grow up together, what is yours will always be yours and you either multiply it or you make it even better.

At certain times, it is okay to lose and it is okay for your position to be taken over by someone else because only when you fall, you'll have the force in you that pushes you to wake up stronger. Remind yourself that you are in this world to achieve. Stay positive, spread positivity to the world, do good to people an even when good doesn't come back to you, stay positive because no one knows what tomorrow might bring. Learn! Learn when you feel like someone else is taking you over. What is that extra thing in them that made them to overtake you? How did you lose to them? Ask all these questions to yourself, get answers and then correct them...in the right way! If you are still confused thinking what might have gone wrong, go ahead and meet the professionals,in the sense someone who's ahead of you and ask them what has gone wrong. Never feel embarrassed or shy to ask. Only when you clear your doubts,you'll learn and that is when you will be able to answer someone else.
It is never too late for you to learn and there is never an end for learning. Keep learning, educate yourself, spread positivity to the world.